In 1992, I created this 20 page pamphlet to explain my daughter’s bat mitzvah ceremony to our Jewish and non-Jewish guests . In 1995, after my son’s bar mitzvah, with more writing by Rabbi Samuel Barth, I published it with Behrman House. They make it possible for everyone to customize it for their own bat and bar mitzvahs.  It’s still selling.  Amazing! Todah Rebah!